The daily ritual of a Minnesota woman carried on for 27 years for a missing boy

Agnes Imdieke awakened the morning of Sept. 3 in her apartment on the outskirts of Albany and got ready for the day. As she did every day, she lit a candle and said a prayer for the safe return of Jacob Wetterling.

It's a ritual she set aside time for each morning for the past 27 years since the 11-year-old boy was abducted from a rural area near his hometown of St. Joseph on Oct. 22, 1989.

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Later that day, Agnes learned that Jacob's remains had been found in a remote area near Paynesville. Danny Heinrich confessed to his kidnapping and murder during a hearing Sept. 6 in a Minneapolis courtroom, having earlier led authorities to the boy's body.

Now, Imdieke's prayers have a different focus: bittersweet gratitude that Jacob was finally found and returned to his family, and for healing for everyone touched by his death, especially his mother, Patty Wetterling.

Her commitment to pray for Jacob gained strength thanks to her late mother, Fredericka.

On Oct. 21, 1990, Agnes and her sister, Benedictine Sister Alice Imdieke, were talking with their mother, whose health was failing at the time. They asked her if there was anything she would wish or hoped for. She told them she hoped that Jacob would be found and returned to his family.

Fredericka died the next day–on the first anniversary of Jacob's abduction.

"Mom always prayed for him," Agnes told The Visitor, newspaper of the Diocese of St. Cloud, Minnesota.

Like so many others, Fredericka had been deeply affected by Jacob's disappearance and had been following the news coverage in the months that followed.

"It was one of the last things she said. I think that really hit us," Sister Alice said. "I think we have kept this up because that was (our) mother's wish."

The dedication of Agnes and others who have been praying for Jacob is a powerful witness of how faith can unite others, Sister Alice said.

Benedictine Sister Karen Rose, director of mission advancement for St. Benedict's Monastery in St. Joseph, said in an email to The Visitor that the sisters are "holding the Wetterling family in prayer," and "calling on social media followers to pray with us."

"So far, we've reached about 4,000 people on Facebook alone," she said Sept. 3. "We've had a beautiful response, with many commenting and sharing. I hope it is some comfort to the family to know that so many people, in so many places, are reaching out to them through prayer."

Like many in the community, Sister Alice is feeling mixed emotions. In the back of her mind, she remained hopeful that Jacob would make it home alive. 

"It's a sad thing," Sister Alice said. "But now the whole family knows where he is and they can ... hopefully find peace."

In a Sept. 5 statement from Patty Wetterling via the Jacob Wetterling Resource Center's Facebook page, she created a list of things people can do that she said will "bring her comfort today." The list includes:

  • Say a prayer
  • Light a candle
  • Be with friends
  • Play with your children
  • Giggle
  • Hold hands
  • Eat ice cream
  • Create joy
  • Help your neighbor

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Towalski is a multimedia reporter for The Visitor, newspaper of the Diocese of St. Cloud.

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