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Monsignor Frank Rossi stands outside Our Lady of the Pines Catholic Church in Woodville, Texas, on April 14, 2019. (AP Photo/Wong Maye-E)

(RNS) — New questions about how Catholic leaders deal with sexual misconduct arose Tuesday (June 4) after a Texas woman claimed in a news report that church officials in Houston allowed a priest with whom she had a sexual relationship to continue in ministry at a parish two hours away.

Yesterday’s story following an Associated Press investigation detailed an unsettling account of Laura Pontikes, who said Cardinal Daniel DiNardo, head of the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston the current president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, failed to respond adequately to her 2016 claim that Monsignor Frank Rossi, a deputy to DiNardo, had begun a relationship in August 2012 after the cleric spent years as her priest and confessor.

Pontikes claimed that Rossi induced her to perform sexual acts in his office during spiritual direction sessions, absolving her of her sins and eventually consummating their relationship with intercourse — all while the priest argued that such “holy touches” were encouraged by Paul the Apostle. Rossi also allegedly pushed her and her husband to donate millions of dollars to his church, St. Michael the Archangel.

In the era of #MeToo and #ChurchToo, the fact that the accuser is an adult has not spared the church new scrutiny about the church hierarchy’s slowness to respond to sexual misconduct claims or about what experts have been quick to call confusion regarding what constitutes consent.

“People make assumptions that maybe once someone’s an adult, 18 or 19, that they can consent,” said David Pooler, a professor at Baylor University who has studied abusive sexual relationships between clergy and other adults.

“The research that I’ve done in this area … is that that there was no ability to consent (to a relationship with a priest) because of the dependence that the parishioner or congregant had on this priest.”

According to the AP, the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston acknowledged that Rossi’s relationship “included encounters of a sexual nature” but insisted the relationship never involved intercourse and that the priest never heard Pontikes’ confession during or after the relationship became physical. (A priest absolving someone with whom he has engaged in sexual sin is a crime under canon law punishable with possible excommunication.)

Pontikes and her husband, George, argue that not only did Rossi manipulate and betray his parishioner, but that the archdiocese’s attempts at mediation focused primarily on financial settlements.

After the relationship was revealed to church officials, Rossi was placed in a smaller parish in the same state. It was only this week that the Diocese of Beaumont, where Rossi still served until recently, announced that he has been placed on “temporary administrative leave” pending the outcome of a criminal investigation of the relationship.

Texas law states that if a clergyperson exploits a person’s emotional dependency for sex, then it is without consent.

Natalia Imperatori-Lee, a professor at Manhattan College who studies Catholic ecclesiology, suggested the situation echoed the Catholic Church’s attempts to cover up priests’ sexual abuse of minors.

“Clericalism is a problem with many consequences,” Imperatori-Lee said, referring to a common criticism that the church protects its leaders, even when it means dismissing the needs of its followers.

“One of those is that the priest, when viewed as superhuman, is always already in a position of power vis-a-vis a layperson. Thus, if a sex act occurs or is initiated by either party, the person with the power is responsible — in this case, the priest.”

She added: “The fact that sacramental confession entered into this case is even more worrisome, particularly if the priest’s superiors did not inquire about it.”

Pooler said Pontikes’ account of her interactions with Rossi — a relationship that began slowly, couched in spiritual language, and was magnified by a church hierarchy that is slow to respond — matches patterns he found in a survey of 27 survivors of clergy-perpetrated sexual abuse.

“The 27 survivors (said) the way they were treated by the church was actually worse than the abuse itself,” Pooler said.

Pooler’s research included people from both Protestant and Catholic traditions, and he was quick to stress that the broader issue of sexual abuse among adults is not unique to Catholicism. But he noted that accounts of high-ranking church officials’ shielding the institution appear to be more and more common.

“It’s almost like the institution cannot function without protecting itself,” he said.

In Rossi’s case, the breakdown of accountability could be seen as particularly acute: While serving the Galveston-Houston Archdiocese in various roles such as vice chancellor, Rossi helped handle many of the region’s abuse cases.

Imperatori-Lee said the church’s top-down attempts to cure its systemic problem of dealing with abuse, which have been a priority since the 2002 “Spotlight” scandal, may be working against it.

“When parishes and dioceses over-rely on prepackaged compliance programs, a false sense of having ‘solved’ the problem or ‘trained’ personnel can substitute for the genuine vigilance that is required when we are dealing with vulnerable people — children, but also those in spiritual pain who are seeking help,” she said.

She added: “Sexual abuse in the church must be addressed, but it requires a cultural shift away from secrecy and toward transparency. Online training, HR courses or in-service days give us the illusion of ‘doing something’ without genuinely shifting clerical culture.”

It remains unclear as to what impact the scandal will have on DiNardo, who is already under fire for allegedly not doing enough to stop a priest under his purview who is currently being charged with two counts of indecency with a child that occurred in 1998 and 2000.

In December 2018, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests called for DiNardo’s resignation as head of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, a month after the offices of the Galveston-Houston Archdiocese he leads were searched by police.

According to the AP, police found files locked away in a bank vault during their search that the archdiocese had previously failed to turn over.

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Jeanne Devine
4 years 11 months ago

The imbalance of power between a priest, minister, rabbi, imam etc. and a congregant is so great that it is never possible to have a "consensual" relationship. And how is it possible for a priest who has vowed celibacy to have a sexual relationship with anyone, male or female?

Phil Little
4 years 11 months ago

The relationship of a priest with a parishioner, certainly involving the sacrament of penance, and counseling, that clearly demonstrates a gradual "grooming" of the parishioner for sexual exploitation is surely criminal in nature as well as meriting canonical sanction because there is a priest-penitent relationship that is being abused. The same is true for clinical counselor-client, teacher-student relationships, etc., there is a power imbalance that automatically limits the ability of the victim to fully consent to the actions. Again this goes beyond the actions of the offender, as the institution is involved in minimalizing the seriousness of the situation to a point of aiding in the coverup which might be in itself criminal. How tragically typical showing that too little has changed in the practice and all the talk about reform is not sinking in. That the offender has been allowed to continue in ministry is a slap in the face of the victim and all victims of sexual abuse by clerics. The church is not capable of investigating this but the circumstances would suggest that this pattern of grooming and abuse is not a one time incident but the tip of the iceberg.

Stephanie Barrett
4 years 11 months ago

Any woman in a similar counseling situation, where any sexual involvement occurred. Any counselor will tell you that was not consensual, it was Rape. Needs to be called by what it was.

4 years 11 months ago

I had a priest come on to me in the confessional without any interest or consent on my part, and he became visibly aroused as he touched himself. I complained to the Vicar General (post the Dallas Charter), and was told they could not do anything about it and would not even discuss it with the priest as it was under the seal of confession. I said the seal was to protect the confidentiality of sins I might confess, but not protect a priest from outrageous sexual harassment. The VG said that did not matter and I owned it to the Church as a good Catholic to never mention it to anyone or I would be guilty of causing scandal, which he reminded me was a grave sin. The priest was later incardinated and put in charge of the parish youth group. My daughter complained to me telling me that the girls were creeped out by him because of how he touched them and spoke to them. She refused to go on the overnight trips they planned, as the "creepy" priest was the organizer and chaperone of these outings. A few years later, he was appointed pastor of a church and I decided I had to try again to report his behavior. I was told that any sexual activity, wanted or not, in confession or not, was "between two consenting adults" and not of interest to the Church. I was told their only mandate was the protection of youth and they had no interest in whatever a priest did with an adult.

Rudolph Koser
4 years 11 months ago

Time to get female oversight for this problem in the Church. The men are not able, nor should they, police themselves.

Craig B. Mckee
4 years 11 months ago

Di Nardo's continuing presidency of the USCCB is an affront and public scandal to the American church, his fellow bishops who elected him, and worst of all to the American Catholics who are attempting to follow their leaders.
His first official action in Baltimore next week should be his last: IMMEDIATE RESIGNATION.
Anything less, should empower American Catholics to take any and all documents and/or statements issued by the USCCB next week to be used to line their birdcages. Period. No more deceit. No more apologetics. No more Papal Bull!

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