Saint Joseph, his mysteries and his dreams

Saint Joseph, tenderly holding the Child Jesus near his heart

St. Joseph, the loving spouse of Mary and the foster father of Jesus, is honored with a Feast Day on March 19th, two days after the great feast of the Apostle of Ireland, St. Patrick. It seems not only unfortunate, but unfair to have the two great feasts of two great saints so close together. Each year St. Joseph runs the risk of being buried beneath all of the tickertape and the detritus left over from the St. Patrick's Day parades, and so we don't often take the time to consider who St. Joseph really was. Yet poor St. Patrick can't take all the blame for this oversight. For many, the trouble stems from the fact that we simply don't know that much about St. Joseph. 

Given that there are many personalities in the Old and New Testaments about whom we have far greater knowledge of their backgrounds, character and so forth; it is hard to say why so little is known about St. Joseph. We know more of Mary Magdalene and Zacchaeus and the tax collectors than we do of Joseph. Apart from the obvious and most important fact that he was the spouse of Mary and Jesus’ foster father, and had, as a matter of fact, a royal lineage going back to King David, little else is known. 


Even the date of his death is a mystery; he is believed to have died before the commencement of Jesus’ ministry and certainly before Jesus’ crucifixion. (According to some sources, Joseph might have been dead by the time of the Wedding Feast at Cana, when the account has Mary there by herself.) But while the presence of Joseph was brief among the key players of our salvation history, the curious fact remains that there is not a recorded word of his left behind for us to read or ponder. Even in the account when Jesus was lost, when Mary and Joseph found the 12-year-old Jesus in the Temple, it was Mary who questioned Jesus, not Joseph. We know of Joseph's reputation as a carpenter, that he was a hard worker and, as such, dedicated to his craftsmanship; it can be deduced that because of his life’s work, he made sure he provided for those in his care, Mary and Jesus, and that being human, he naturally must have communicated with them and others. We do not know what neighbors, friends or wider family he had or might have had. Surely, Joseph was a man of deep feelings and had a desire to express them. And yet while many who inhabit the New Testament stories are voluble and mightily expressive, the Gospel accounts leaves Joseph silent and unspoken.

We also know that Joseph did his share of listening, particularly in his dreams. He is perhaps one of the precious few people in the entire Bible (but certainly in the New Testament) whose life was determined by his dreams. It would be safe to assume that a hardworking carpenter like Joseph would welcome the respite that would come from his labors with a night’s restful slumber; but to have his rest disrupted surely did not help to relax or content his mind and body, even though the dreams he had (to follow through with his betrothal to Mary and the directive to escape to Egypt with his wife and child) surely worked out to the peace of his soul. The brief account of his life that is presented to us only offers us those two dreams in particular. But one must wonder if there were others. Did he ever dream about what would become of him, Mary and Jesus? Did he have a dream in which the child Jesus was lost at the Temple? Did he dream about the purpose of it all?  We will never know; but it is somewhat comforting that even saints can have troubling dreams and that somehow, they worked their way through them, like Joseph.

Despite our lack of historical facts about St. Joseph, perhaps we do in fact know the most important things about him: The Gospel writer Matthew described Joseph in exactly three words: “a righteous man” (Mt 1:18). That has to be the most succinct biography of a human being ever written, and in St. Joseph’s case, accurate and enough.  He had to be “righteous,” but he was also all of those other things that are attributed to him in our novena prayers: Joseph is the “most” just, prudent, loving husband, strong and obedient and faithful. But he is also the pillar of families, the patron of the dying and the terror of demons. The adjectives of the prayers are superlative and numerous. Perhaps, Joseph didn’t need to utter any words—the words of our prayers about him say it all.

St. Joseph is also one of the few people depicted in sacred art as tenderly holding in his arms the Child Jesus. The Blessed Mother has this honor, of course. The only other saint to be depicted in this way is Saint Anthony, who had begged the Lord for that privilege, which was granted to him. St. Joseph is depicted in some artwork as being either very young and virile, and in others, very grandfatherly and old. Either way, the Joseph that is depicted is one who displays love and tenderness toward the Child. The inner man is revealed through the tender love he displays in the way he holds Jesus; it is a rewarding and fulfilling love, thoroughly reciprocated: Joseph is a true man.

It is this love that we need to remember on Saint Joseph’s Day. And it is part of the novena prayer that is most evocative: “Oh, Saint Joseph, I never weary contemplating you and Jesus asleep in your arms. I dare not approach while He reposes near your heart. Press him in my name and kiss His fine head for me, and ask Him to return the Kiss when I draw my dying breath. Saint Joseph, Patron of departing souls, pray for us. Amen.”

So, on this your Feast Day, dear Saint Joseph, help us to repose near your heart and with your prayers; help us put aside all worries, knowing that you look on us with care, so that we, too, can have a heart just like yours, tender and true.

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Bruce Snowden
4 years 2 months ago
At the Guggenheim Museum of Modern Art where I worked a second job as a young man at times, making extra cash to pay bills for example like having opted to send our young kids to Catholic schools, not extraordinary for many Catholic parents, there was a work of art there called “Blank Canvass.” It was exactly that, a framed piece of blank canvass painted white, hanging with other modern works of art on the museum’s wall, valued at thousands of dollars. Reading the beautiful essay “The Mysteries of Saint Joseph” by Joseph McAuley, brought to mind that “Blank Canvas” at Guggenheim. Yes, like a piece of blank canvass “hanging” as it were on the wall of the home of the Holy Family in Nazareth, Scripture and Tradition have practically nothing to say about Saint Joseph. He’s like a blank work of art of incalculable worth, a remarkable man about whom very few remarks are recorded. But Scripture does call him “a Just man” praise I believe found nowhere else in Scripture for anyone. There may be one or the other but it is a rare expression of praise hardly ever used. A man who is “Just” excels in virtue and is a model of all, for all. Saint Joseph is exactly that! When the Spirit spoke, I guess he said it all and there was no need for more. But of course from a human point of view perhaps more can be said. It can be said Saint Joseph must have been the perfect person to be husband of the Mother of God, earthly Father of the Son of God and abundantly capable as a provider. It would seem unthinkable that God would choose anyone of lesser experience. There is, as was once explained to me, a small and knotted thread of belief, that Saint Joseph had been married before Mary, and the father of several children. Some suggest that the “brothers and sisters of Jesus” spoken of in Scripture may have been those children, since if they were Joseph’s offspring, they would have been lawfully legal brothers and sisters of Jesus. I tend to believe it, but its proven veracity is up for grabs! If Saint Joseph had been married with children, then he was well equipped to successfully husband a wife and be father to Jesus. Saint Joseph was also an excellent provider, not only in woodwork but also in construction, such as road building. So, he was not a needy man when he married Mary, but quite able to give her a good living. Divine Providence also gave some help as may be ascertained from the money value of the Magi’s gifts, gold and more. Three Magi are mentioned but there is probability that there were more as caravans transported many. The sudden trip to Egypt where Joseph probably had no immediate employment leads, nor a place to live when Jesus was about two and Mary about seventeen, were properly implement by some of the Magi’s gold, tiding over the Holy Family until work and lodging were found. Add to that revenue Saint Joseph’s personal family savings, and one may readily see they were not unprepared to take that lengthy trip to Egypt. God does what God always does – provide. But so often we fail to recognize that provision. May Saint Joseph look after us as Patron Saint of the Church, whom we are, taking special interest in Holy Father Francis. Everything that Mr. McAuley said in his tribute to Saint Joseph is a blessing and wonderful beyond words! Next to Mary he is the greatest of the Saints and proud to say my Confirmation Patron. Father Joseph, pray for us!
William Rydberg
4 years 2 months ago
Joe, Don't know where you spent your time as a Catholic youth, ( I am assuming that you are a co-religionist). If you're not, I apologize in advance, but... There's Plenty of Tradition on St Joseph. So many good Catholic pamphlets and books around. Ask for one at any Catholic bookstore or the book rack at any parish church... Even in the smallest of shops, I'd be surprised if the owner couldn't come up with 3 or 4 little pamphlets or books on St Joseph, It comes out of the Catholic people's Oral Tradition, which is still vibrant... Speaking as a Canadian, you are always welcome to visit our St Joseph's Oratory in the City of Montreal. Patriarch St Joseph, pray for us, Blessed be the Holy Trinity, One God, the God of Israel...
ed gleason
4 years 2 months ago
St Joesph is the patron saint of Retrouvaille, a program for troubled marriages. Here is the prayer that couples/families in despair can say, Prayer to Saint Joseph Based on Matthew 1:18-25 We ask your prayers, St. Joseph, an upright man, a spouse who planned to divorce Mary in secret and who by God's grace was able to see his role in God's plan. We ask you in our behalf to pray to God that our marriage be healed. We are enveloped in pain and despair as you must have been when you learned of Mary's pregnancy. Be for and with us, Joseph, in our hour of doubt. Let us listen to and heed the voice of God as you did. Be our intercessor to your Jesus, to give us the blessings to change, to listen, to forgive and most of all to hope that our marriage will heal and our family remain whole and holy. We give you honor, quiet St. Joseph, for you are a spouse like us, who while knowing pain, did not divorce. By God's grace you nourished the Holy Family and the Savior of all families throughout the ages. Amen.


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