Palm Sunday raises at least two important spiritual questions for Christians: What does it mean to be like Jesus? And what does it means to take up our crosses, just like he did?
First, you don't need to go looking for your cross. Life gives them to you. Whether it's an illness or a tough family relationship or trouble in school or problems on the job. The real cross is the one that you don't want.
Because it's hardly a cross if you want it.
Just like it was for Jesus.
Second, we are asked by Jesus to accept our crosses.
Now, what does that mean? Well, first it means accepting that suffering is a reality in your life, and being honest about it. Perhaps more importantly, it means not passing along the bitterness that you feel. That doesn't mean that when you're with friends or family members or counselors, you can't talk about it or complain about it or even cry about it. That's both healthy and natural.
But it does mean that if you're angry about your boss or about school or about your family, you don't pass along that anger or bitterness or meanness to others. If you have a lousy boss, does that mean that you should be mean to your family? If you have a difficult family situation, does that mean that you should be angry with your coworkers? If you are having problems at school, does that mean that you should be cruel to your family?
Your cross is your cross. It shouldn't become someone else's.