Jesus is my (Facebook) Friend!

Imagine my surprise when I received an email this morning that read, in its entirety: “Jesus added you as a friend on Facebook.  We need to confirm that you know Jesus in order for you to be friends on Facebook.” 


I’m not joking.  Here’s the link to his page, if you persist in your doubt.  (You need to be on Facebook to see it.)

On the one hand, I was delighted.  Who wouldn’t be?  And I said “yes” immediately to God’s request, unlike a certain young virgin from Nazareth who had to ask, “How can this be?”  I know better than to say no to God’s requests, or even to doubt his inscrutable will.  (When Zechariah questioned God’s will in the Gospel of Luke, he was struck dumb, which is something I like to avoid.)  Here I am, Lord, and I come to be your Facebook friend! 

But beyond just saying “yes” to Jesus, I figured, perhaps selfishly, that there were many benefits that would accrue by being "friended" by the Son of God.  For one thing, after all that puzzling over confusing Scripture passages (like about half of the Gospel of John), trying to figure out the point of suffering and, in general, struggling to discern his more-often-than-not mysterious will, I could finally get what I hope would be clearer answers to my questions.  Like, did God really need to make so many mosquitoes?  Where do pigeons lay their eggs?  Why does the other line always move faster?  And what’s with this Rod Blagojevich guy? 

On the other hand, I was a little annoyed.  Did the Facebook people really need “confirmation” that I “know Jesus” after 20 years as a Jesuit.  Apparently, praying daily, serving the poor, and living poverty, chastity and obedience are not enough “confirmation.”  Well, as St. James and John said when Jesus told them they wouldn’t be standing at his right hand in heaven, “Whatever.”

There was lots to learn about Jesus of Nazareth from his Facebook profile.  (Actually, he lists himself as Jesus Nazareth, dropping the "of" just like Ignatius Loyola did.)  Some things I already knew, but it was nice to see “confirmation” anyway.  For one thing, he was in fact born in Bethlehem.  (There’s a picture on his Homepage.)  He does in fact have a long beard and piercing eyes.  He put a nice picture of himself on his Profile page--which I posted above--as well as a picture of his birthplace, which looks a stable, albeit a very, very well lit one.  

Oh, and he was in fact born on December 25, though he doesn’t give the year.  I guess, “Before you were, I am” wouldn’t fit in that space.  Or maybe he’s a little sensitive about his age.  I know how he feels.

But here are some things you might not know.  I didn’t.  Apparently he went to Notre Dame, since he’s a member of a kind of alumni club.  (Or maybe he just clicked “Confirm” on that request to get some annoying ND friend off his back.)  He’s a member of fan club for some guy named Yang Wei, who is a Chinese gymnast.  (Jesus likes people from many lands, to the ends of the earth.)  And he’s also a member of the FB group “Eat, Sleep, Sail,” which is a good summary of what he used to do with the apostles, although “Eat, Sleep, Heal, Preach, Feed Five Thousand, Preach Some More, Exorcise, Sail” might be more accurate.  And—a nice surprise—he’s planning on going to a Jesuit ordination Mass in 2009, not in the form some vague “Holy Spirit” but, apparently, in person.  That should be fun.  Hope he gets to preach!  (Although he’s not ordained so that could pose something of a problem.)

Anyway, I’m delighted to have had Jesus “friend” me.  I look forward to his updates.  ("Jesus is casting out demons."  "Jesus is stilling the storm."  "Jesus is watching the Eagles game.")  And I’ll be checking in on him a lot, since I’ve got lots of questions to ask him and his Father in heaven, who as of yet doesn’t seem to have his own page.  Surprisingly, though,  Jesus’s Facebook page takes forever to load.  Frankly, it’s a pain.  One day in his Temple may be like a thousand years, but on the web one minute is way too long to wait for anything.

James Martin, SJ 

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9 years 9 months ago
Thanks for this - made me smile this morning. I think I might see if Jesus will be my facebook friend too.
9 years 9 months ago
So... what happens if Jesus rejects me as his Facebook friend?
9 years 9 months ago
So love this. Many thanks.
9 years 9 months ago
I was so happy to read that my Savior is on Facebook. No longer would I fear that Facebook causes me to be a poor steward of time. Not so if it is now Jesus approved! So imagine my shock when I read that this 'Jesus' likes (actually calls them products) cats and the Houston Astros. No way. The real JC (at least in His human nature) is a dog person and is a Yankee fan. I'm sorry, Fr. Martin, but I fear you've been duped by the devil in disguise.
9 years 9 months ago
Worthy of a Colbert Report 'news' item. Oops, Fr. Martin's already been there, done that. ;)
9 years 9 months ago
This is great. I think I'll friend request Jesus. Thanks for the heads up, Fr. Martin.
9 years 9 months ago
Fr. Martin, I was going to make some joke about them needing confirmation that you really know Jesus BECAUSE you've spent 20 years as a Jesuit, but then I figured that wouldn't be very nice, so I just won't say it :-P I joke, I joke!
9 years 9 months ago
hoping Jesus will be my friend on Facebook too, would love to see some updated photos
9 years 9 months ago
I like the part that says: "Not the Jesus Nazareth you were looking for? Search more..." You click and get even more! I also like that Jesus is a fan of Calvin and Hobbes. Finally... I noticed they left out his middle name... "Of"
9 years 9 months ago
Karl Rahner tried to friend me on Facebook a few months back. I rejected him out of fear his endless status updates would hopelessly clog my news feed. Now he keeps showing up in my "People You May Know" list, so I think he knows I rejected him. Awkward.
9 years 9 months ago
Michael (#9)--Jesus' middle name can't possibly be "of." Though no one knows what it is for sure, experts agree that it starts with "H."
9 years 9 months ago
JIM MARTIN...I miss you, but love how I get to stay connected to you (in some small way) through Facebook! Keep up the writing please. Thanks!
9 years 9 months ago
I am so posting a link to this in my "Favorite Five Friday (vol. 23) I'm off now to befriend Jesus Nazareth : )


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