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In the Wall Street Journal over the weekend, Rob Lazebnik (former writer for “The Simpsons”) offered a humorous guide for parents trying to re-integrate members of the “Most-Loved Generation” (Lazebnik’s phrase) who are now returning from college.

Directed at parents who’ve served as their “kid’s concierge,” Lazebnik writes, “Now we’re deep into summer, and the logistical challenges of your grad really being home are sinking in.”

But the real challenge here is a problem of your own making. You see, these children are members of the Most-Loved Generation: They’ve grown up with their lives stage-managed by us, their college-acceptance-obsessed parents. Remember when Eva, at age 7, was obsessed with gymnastics…for exactly 10 months, which is why the TV in your guest room sits on top of a $2,500 pommel horse?
 

Now that they’re out of college, you realize what wasn’t included in that $240,000 education: classes in life skills and decision-making.

If you’re a parent, what should you do? Read on to find out… 

Matt Emerson's essays have appeared in a number of publications, including AmericaCommonweal, and the Wall Street Journal. The Catholic Press Association named his September 2012 essay "Help Their Unbelief," published in America, as the "best essay" in the category of national general interest magazine for 2012. He is the author of the book Why Faith? A Journey of Discovery (Paulist Press 2016).Articles:Fruitful Searching (Jan. 5-12, 2015)Preambles for Faith (May 13, 2013)Help Their Unbelief (Sept. 10, 2012)Posts at The Ignatian Educator