No monk should ever defend another in the monastery. Nor should he take sides in an argument…. We decree that no one should be permitted to ostracize or to strike any one of his brothers; and if any monk should break this rule, let him be publicly reprimanded, that the others may learn from h
Faith in Focus
The Monk and Me: New habits of friendship
I met the monk, before he was a monk, on Facebook. The message icon flickered to life when an actor we both know made the connection: two writers, two creative people, two weirdoes, two Catholics. Perhaps we’d like to get acquainted? The monk back then had a different name; let’s call hi
Raising Peter: What my son taught me about my faith
When my oldest son Peter was almost 4 years old, we arrived at Sunday Mass, hurriedly walking in a few minutes late, when he noticed the prayer candles in the back corner of the church. He was mesmerized. He asked, “Mommy, what are those?” As the mother of a child who had been labeled as
Sometimes winter breaks us—and that’s okay.
As this winter gets underway in earnest, I say, go ahead and break me. Plunder me, take me down, so I can be made new. Maybe that is exactly what I need—not merely a rest but a reinvention.
Merton (Still) Matters: How the Trappist monk and author speaks to millennials
Jan. 31, 2015, would have marked the 100th birthday of the American Trappist monk and author Thomas Merton.
Fruitful Searching: Wandering my way toward God
I know a Jesuit whose father worked at the same company for 56 years. A friend and mentor just retired after 35 years at the same company, and my father has only recently begun to decelerate after practicing orthopedic surgery for almost 40 years.I am 33. After graduating from college
Military Maneuver: Finding my vocation in uniform
Raymond A. Scroth, S.J., on finding his vocation in uniform
Faith Amid Flowers: Finding grace and new growth at Christmas
Finding grace and new growth at Christmas
Everyday Sacraments: Final lessons of love
Each day after her mother’s fall had its attendant rituals, including an offering of key lime pie.
The Loneliest Choice: Puzzling through suicide’s sorrowful mystery
‘I can no longer cope with the loneliness. At this point the future could not look any blacker…. I kept thinking I could work my way out of this horrible depression that grips me, but I can’t do it. Please forgive me if I have hurt you….”Minutes after writing these words, my mo
